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Girl Gone Smart


Girl Gone Authentic: Learning to Communicate Properly or Why I Need to Stop Fixing Everything
I've always thought I was a good communicator. I have a great command of the English language, I’m intelligent, and I want to make things...

Middle Aged Mama
Aug 28, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Please be Respectful, and not just because I am Buying You Something
I know that as a parent, I’m responsible for ensuring my children’s well-being. I need to make sure I provide food, clothing, and...

Middle Aged Mama
Aug 20, 20195 min read
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Girl Gone Smart/Reading: Who needs therapy after the finale of The Handmaid's Tale? *no spoilers!*
If you're not familiar with the book The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood, then surely you're familiar with the insanely popular show...

Heather C Fazio
Aug 16, 20192 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Maybe I Need to Use the "C" Word with My Daughters
When I started having kids over 27 years ago (man I’m old), I wanted to be the best mom for them. I wanted to instill values in them,...

Middle Aged Mama
Aug 11, 20197 min read
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Girl Gone Smart: A year without my Mom
Next week on July 17 it will be a year since I've lost my Mom. I don't know how I will be on that particular day, but honestly, it's just...

Heather C Fazio
Jul 11, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Self-Centered Decisions
WARNING: Some crude/vulgar content in this article. When I first became single after almost 16 years of being with my ex-husband, I...

Middle Aged Mama
Jul 2, 20197 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic - Divorce Sucks, or Why You Should Listen to Your Inner Voice (Part 5)
Fast-forward to November 2018. Our son got married and of course we attended the wedding. I had not seen my ex in over a year; he quit...

Middle Aged Mama
Jun 29, 20196 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Divorce Sucks, or Why You Should Listen to Your Inner Voice (Part 4)
Warning: I use occasional crude/vulgar language in this article. He bought me an engagement ring in 2001 and we chose a wedding date in...

Middle Aged Mama
Jun 26, 201912 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Divorce Sucks, or Why You Should Listen to Your Inner Voice (Part 3)
So, we settled into being parents of our son during Spring/Summer/Fall 1997. I was so happy to have a baby that I shut out anything...

Middle Aged Mama
Jun 22, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Divorce Sucks, or Why You Should Listen to Your Inner Voice (Part 2)
Even with all the warning signs, we moved in together in early 1995. I really thought that once he felt more secure in our relationship,...

Middle Aged Mama
Jun 20, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Divorce Sucks, or Why You Should Listen to Your Inner Voice (Part 1)
Warning: I may use the occasional curse word in this article. No one gets married assuming or thinking that they will get divorced. At...

Middle Aged Mama
Jun 19, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Authentic: Introduction
Let me tell you a little bit about myself. My name is Denise. I’m 45 years old and am defined as many things, depending on who you talk...

Middle Aged Mama
Jun 18, 20191 min read
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Boy Gone Smart: A straight male's perspective on being gay and loving your children
*Language warning Normally I reserve guest posts for women who need or want a space to share something important to them or what may be...

Heather C Fazio
Apr 3, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Traveling: Best thing to do in Phuket
It's time to throw away your list of the "top 10 things to do in Thailand" and read this. I want to tell you how horribly the elephants...

Heather C Fazio
Mar 26, 20194 min read
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Girl Gone Smart: When a loved one's death brings clarity, it's beyond sad but oddly beautiful
This is a notion that has been running through my mind for months and I've struggled to define it or process it myself, however when I...

Heather C Fazio
Mar 13, 20195 min read
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Girl Gone Off: R. Kelly - Step back a moment, please
There has been a lot of news in the last three weeks that has taken over most media and has been at the forefront of people's thoughts -...

Heather C Fazio
Jan 27, 20193 min read
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Girl Gone Smart: How to Host a Facebook Fundraiser
In 2018 I hosted several fundraisers on Facebook, but it wasn't until I created a fundraiser for Save a Gato that I really saw the...

Heather C Fazio
Jan 4, 20194 min read
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Girl Gone Reading: Pachinko
"In life, there was so much insult and injury, and she had no choice but to collect what was hers. But now she wished to take Solomon's...

Heather C Fazio
Dec 28, 20182 min read
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Girl Gone Reading: A Life in Miniature
It has taken me a while to process how I feel about the book The Miniaturist by Jessie Burton. It’s true that work and a very bad cold...

Heather C Fazio
Dec 6, 20183 min read
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Attention Northern NY Transplants!
What do you crave? I originally published this in the Albany Times Union back in February of 2017 before the Superbowl, but with the...

Heather C Fazio
Dec 5, 20182 min read
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